💋My Turn on's💋

 Hi everyone! Hope all is well with you.

Today I thought I'd do a quick but fun post about what actually turns me on and what turns me the fuck off. If you have been reading my blog, you would know that I blend second life and real-life like a mixer because I see no point separating them. This goes for both worlds.

Let's get to the juicy parts, shall we?

I will "List" in no particular order, so here we go.💋

I should also say that the names for these, I have made.

The "Hi baby, hug."

Let me set the mood:

So you are standing(or sitting) in the kitchen, doing dishes, maybe when you suddenly feel your man's arms going around your waist, he steps closer, whispering softly in your ear, "hi baby, mmmm I'm home, how was your day?" 

You turn your head slightly as he kisses the side of your face, as you softly respond.

He starts to sway softly from side to side with you in his arms. 💋💋💋💋💋💋

The "melt Kissing the neck."

mood:

You turn your head slightly as he kisses the side of your face, as you softly respond. He listens while stroking your arms with his hands. Finally, he moves his lips down to the side of your neck. your head falls back onto his other shoulder  as he softly lets out, "mmm missed you." 💋💋💋💋💋💋

The "God I have missed you kiss" version 1

I barely have to write the mood for this one but:

Your man comes home from work, throwing the keys on the side table. "Baby?" walking fast "babe? Are you home? Oh, there you are. He walks up behind you in seconds. He grabs your hair, pulling your head back for a kiss. His other hand cups your chin and throat softly. 💋💋💋💋💋💋

The "God I have missed you kiss" version 2

Mood:

You have just shut the door to the closet for bed sheets.

You lock eyes with your man as he comes through the door. He smiles softly as he walks to you. he cups your head in his hands, and he kisses you very slow, breaking the kiss whispering to your lips, "God, I have missed you." 💋💋💋💋💋💋

the "Belly Kissing."

Mood:

You have just put on the new lingerie set that you bought. Your man comes into the bedroom, his jaw drops, and his mouth gives a silent "Holey shit, wow."

You blush softly at his reaction. He goes down to his knees, softly and slowly, he kisses down your belly. 💋💋💋💋💋💋

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Now it's time for the more.... how do I put it? the more? "in the bedroom turn on's" so if you don't want to know or see thank you for reading this far♥

KISSING in all forms is a big must for me, slow, deep "back of the head pushed into the pillow kissing" Yes! 💋💋💋💋💋💋

WHISPERINGS 

During the " hi, baby hug" or in bed while making love, during kissing, cuddling, and whispers against lips or close to lips. 💋💋💋💋💋💋

"My Queen." LICKING PUSSY

Please, to ALL men reading this post!

STOP LICKING THE PUSSY SO FAST!

ALOT of girls may like it fast, but for ME, Slow is the way

TAKE YOUR TIME 

EVEN in Second Life. 💋💋💋💋💋💋

 

"My King,"  Blow job.

I absolutely love Blow jobs! Especially when he holds my hair or pulls it.

It makes me feel so sexy and slutty but in such a sexy way.

When the man is very vocal moaning, growling, dirty talking about me simultaneously, it makes it even better! 💋💋💋💋💋💋¨

"Protein shake-Cum in mouth."

I searched for a photo or a gif that was not so....." Disgusting" looking, but no.

And to be honest, that is more of a Turn off than a turn-on for me. That's not to say that I won't do it sometimes. I will.

I think I will make an updated "My favorite sex positions" blog post. In the meantime, I have linked  that post

stay tuned *lip bite*

/Tessa

♥SHE IS THE FIRST♥ Dovely. poses!

 I don't really know how to start this blog post. I am kind of at a loss for words, which does not happen very often, to say the least.

So much has happened over the last few days, that even I have a hard time believing that it's actually happening.

A friend even told me, "Do you even realize you are actually SecondLife famous?"

I laughed it off a little, but he said, " I am not joking." I could hear how serious he was by the tone of his voice. So I just went quiet for a bit.

in my head, I went, "holy crap!"

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I think I was a week into being a full-time wheelchair user in second life when the creator behind the brand Dovely Messaged me I was actually out and about shopping.

She asked me what kind of poses I missed having as a wheelchair user in second life, and boy did I have a lot to say.

It did not take her long to say, " I am going to make poses, and I am going to make them free so that more people can have the ability to be in a wheelchair in second life without feeling that they are missing out."

I was floored and overwhelmed by her willingness to take time out from her busy schedule to do poses not only for me but for every single person that has chosen to be in a wheelchair in Second Life for whatever reason.

From that day on. She and I have been working closely together. I have been looking up sample photos on google, making sure to have a good blend of poses and, more importantly never before seen poses.

That was a challenge in itself because, sadly, wheelchair photography is not easy to come across, even in real life.

After a long process, I can now, TODAY! Present you THE FIRST EVER Pose packs for wheelchair users in Second Life!

Now! Before everyone goes crazy over the fact that the wheelchair is not in the packs, dove rose needs to do the avsitter for them in the chair. AFTER She has done so, You will get updated packs with the chair!♥

SECONDLY, Yes, these packs are for females BUT! If you think dove and I are stopping after 2 packs, you are wrong!

We are going to do

Couples

Male

Adult 

Pose packs

so calm down, people♥

these 2 pose packs that are out NOW at dovely's store are for FREE and work perfectly fine for people that use two legs♥

They also come with thick versions so that people with delicious curves can use them.

So please, please head over to dovely's store and pick up the packs!!

Dove rose, you hold a special place in my heart. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. This is just the start!

/Tessa

♥Bit by Bit♥

 

Feeling my way through the darkness

Guided by a beating heart

I can't tell where the journey will end

But I know where to start.

Hi everyone hope you all are doing well. I am.

When I decided to be a wheelchair user in my second life, I had no idea how much of an impact I would make on people by going around in second life.

 

It is proof that you don't need a huge thing to make people stop and think.

I have met so many people telling me how brave I am and how much it has made them stop and think. Some people even tell me that I have changed their life. 

Every single one of them keeps me going, solidifying that what I am doing is changing second life bit by bit.

I have never in my life been more driven, been more motivated, and passionate.

It is all because of people like you!

What happened today solidified yet again that what I am doing is what I am spouse to be doing.

I was going around Second life getting my daily shopping done when I suddenly get an IM that imdietly brings a big smile to my face.

09:50] Person: Sorry to bother you, but I saw you and was like, squeee, that's her! I just a couple days ago came across you on I don't recall if it was flicker or SL Reddit. It was a post about your chair and dancing in it, and I thought that was so freaking awesome. So When I saw you, I just had to reach out and give you a properly socially distanced hug! :)

[09:53] Tessa Blackwood: HIIIIII!!!It was on my Flickr. Thank you so so much!!! you never bother, if someone tells you that, they are not worth it, this means a lot to me

[09:54] Tessa Blackwood: I do have a blog also it is in my picks

[09:56] Person: Oh good. I'm glad it was ok. You just never know, or at least I don't, so sometimes I say nothing and wish I had. I have it open right now, actually! Thank you for the reply. have a wonderful weekend.

[09:59] Tessa Blackwood: You too♥

[10:05] Tessa Blackwood: excuse me, can I take your IM and put it in a blog post? I won't show your name.

[10:05] person: oh gosh, absolutely, feel free. Thank you for asking ♥

[10:06] Tessa Blackwood: thank you so much

[10:06] person: I looked on your blog for some way to send you a gift, but I didn't see one, and I want to, because you know we love to shop! So I hope it's ok that I send you this...

[10:06] Second Life: person paid you L$♥♥♥

[10:07] person: for shopping, helping to make disability in SL and ability, whatever you'd like. xo

[10:07] Tessa Blackwood: Omg! I can't take this! oh, are you sure?

[10:08] person: absolutely sure!

[10:08] Tessa Blackwood: thank you so much. I don't know what to say

[10:09] person: you, your blog, what you're doing says all I need to hear, babe. Enjoy!

The persons' last response made me break into tears of joy, of course, but also an overwhelming sense of "I am really making a difference."

I just kept repeating it over and over in my head "It's happening. I am doing it."

even my Real-life husband got teary-eyed witch says a lot♥

to the person from today, THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart

To all of my friends, thank you for lifting me up, letting me be me with no questions. I love you!

To All the equality fighters of Second life Never stop, never quit, Never give up.

/Tessa Blackwood